Showing posts with label The Oaks at Salem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The Oaks at Salem. Show all posts

Friday, June 27, 2014

Sarah and John's Fabulous Wedding at The Oaks at Salem!

Last August I met Sarah and John. They contacted me because I am a preferred officiant at their venue, The Oaks at Salem. Also turns out that John works at a state agency that I worked at for 15 years before retiring in 2008 and doing weddings full-time. Their DJ, Bill Smith, also works at the agency. So, really the whole team felt like family and John and Sarah and I had fun putting together their wonderful romantic ceremony. The wedding day was June 21, 2014--hot but not raining. Thankfully they both agreed that their ceremony should take place under the tent with the cooling fans, out of the heat, especially for their grandmothers, parents and guests, and ME! Thank you, Sarah and John!
Sarah is a Pinterest gal (and so am I)! So it was fun to see what they had created for their wedding. One thing is this sweet little table made of wood logs. I don't know if they personally made it or found it somewhere. It is perfect to hold flowers and other favors.
They had many framed sayings that they loved scattered about and the window pane table assignments. The bird cage is a sweet touch and birds occur throughout their theme.
The wedding colors were aqua and dusty pink. So pretty together. Their florist was Julie at The Blossom Shop who carried through an eclectic assortment of containers, flowers and candles for centerpieces. 
Inside the folks from Edible Art were putting out the cupcakes on an original design for a cupcake stand with wooden rounds cleverly attached. You can see them more clearly in the photo below.
 A sweet dish and more sayings.......
 Pretty cake stand and wedding cake cutter and server!
 The finished table.......
Remember the bird theme? Sweet cake for the bride and groom by Edible Art as well. 
 Guests were asked to sign the frame........
Bridesmaids and MaryAnn, Mother of the Bride, ready to line up to process in. The bride is hidden away although Sarah and John did do a First Look earlier in the day.
Bill Smith, our trusty DJ with The Magic of Music. I had the honor of officiating at his wedding to his lovely wife Sandra in 2008 before I started this blog. It is always a pleasure to work with Bill. In fact, we will be working together again in September at the wedding of another DJ pal, Brian McGuire!  
Joslin is the event manager for The Oaks and overall "go to person" for the wedding day. She does a wonderful job holding it all together and making sure things go smoothy behind the scenes. She has been on board at The Oaks just over a year now and you would think she has been doing this for years. Thanks, Joslin!
First to process in were grandparents, then parents, then the groomsmen and me and the bridesmaids. There were lots of children of relatives that were included too. Here are Dylan carrying the rings and Lily.
 Then Jacob and Olivia carrying a sign saying "Here comes the Bride!" 
 Lastly Makayla entered and sprinkled the petals. 
 Time for our gorgeous bride!
Mike kissed his daughter's hand then placed it into John's hand. She gave Daddy a farewell kiss and everyone was seated. 
 We began with a warm welcome and prayer, then remembered those who were no longer with us. 
Positioned at the end of the row of bridesmaids was our translator. John's parents are deaf and so are most of their friends who were there. They could watch the bride and groom and see the sign language at the same time.
 Then we honored the parents......
The story came next and theirs is a good one. 
 Everyone enjoyed hearing how they met and fell in love and got to this day. 
A view of the entire ceremony. The guests were seated in rows of chairs a step down from the tables and chairs. You can see our photographer, Cristobal Perez with Azul Photography, getting his amazing photos. He is so talented. I can't wait to see his pictures! Scott Logan, a videographer from Maine (Sarah's home state) came down just to video this wedding.
 After the story they said their vows as they exchanged their rings. 
 For our closing blessing, Wendy, John's sister, read the poignant words of Natalie White. 
 The declaration of marriage!
 Nice kiss! 
 Hooray! 
Marty snapped this photo from the deck above while waiting for all the guests to assemble for a group shot below. I believe with this photo, Marty could turn pro! Don't John and Sarah look like royalty waving to their subjects!!
 The wedding gang! 
Ahhhh! Another great wedding! Thank you Sarah and John for allowing me to be a special part of your day. Your hard work and attention to detail really culminated in a fabulous wedding day! I wish you the best of the best!


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Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Such a Sweet Wedding for Alison and Michael at The Oaks at Salem!

Last July, Alison and Michael and I met to talk about their vision for their wedding ceremony. Their wedding date was almost a year in the future on June 14, 2014 and the venue they had chosen was The Oaks at Salem in Apex. It is a fabulous venue with everything in one place. 
This wedding is the first one I have done under the big tree across the lake from the main house. Other weddings have met with adverse weather conditions forcing us to do the weddings under the tent over the terrace. So glad that spell is broken now! See those heart-shaped things in front of the chairs? Well, clever idea by either Alison or her wedding planner, Gretchen with Red Bird Events, or Pinterest, for the bride and her bridesmaids to stand on in the event the ground is soggy and their heels would sink. The wooden boards were painted pink to match the color of the girls' dresses. 
The duo from Elegant Ensembles was all set up and tuning for the ceremony. 
The shepherd's hooks lining the aisle were loaded with the hanging jars full of pretty flowers by Kelly Kennedy of Teacup Floral.
Nearby there was a table with a basket full of programs in the form of fans. And containers of iced water and lemonade. It was rather steamy hot--up in the 90s that afternoon.
Back on the other side of the lake under the tent, the tables and chairs were set and ready for the guests. The fans in the ceiling of the tent were creating a very pleasant breeze and it was quite comfortable. 
Each table was assigned a year with a photograph of the bride and groom from that year. It was in September of 2009 that Alison and Michael started dating although they had worked together at the UNC Ram Shop since 2008. 
 There was a little tree with leaf name tags for the guests to find their seats by. 
Their photographer, Rebecca Ferguson, created a photo album for them. Her second shooter for this wedding was another photographer I work with frequently, Kate Pope.
 For their guest book, they created this original painting for the guests to add leaves to the tree.   This unusual wedding cake  by Cinda's Creative Cakes carries out their "leaf" theme and there are two little squirrels on the bottom tier. To the right is a photo cutout of their beloved kitty, Lumos. And there are photos of their parents at their respective weddings. 
 Joslin Rodely, event manager with The Oaks, is holding down the fort on this side of the lake! 
Jeff Simpson with Simpsound DJ & Lighting Services, is getting his DJ station all set up before he changes into his tux. We have worked weddings together for many years. At this wedding though, he was on the other side of the lake from the ceremony and we had live music by Elegant Ensembles so I brought my battery powered sound system to amplify my voice.
And so now we begin. The grandmothers have been brought around via golf buggy and seated. Entering above are Michael's parents, Linda and Wayne.
Jo Anne, mother of the bride, is escorted in by her son, Aaron who will meet up with the groomsmen as we enter next.
So, ready for the wedding party. The cross you see has very special significance. It was made from a tree that Alison's grandfather cut down as a logger. In the ceremony we mentioned the significance and "Let us see this beautiful cross as a symbol of love and a memorial to all the ancestors of the two families joined here today." 
 It is a long walk around the lake! We have received the signal to start! 
 Aaron has joined us now as we take our places up front (facing the sun, I might add)! 
The bridesmaids made their way around the other side of the lake. I wonder what Robin Crew, our videographer with Bay Leaf Video Productions is looking at up in the sky! A bird? A plane?
Our honorary ring bearer and flower girl obviously enjoyed being pulled in a wagon around the lake. They were very well behaved and I did not hear a peep out of them during the ceremony!
 So, now for the bride and her father to come around the lake and join us! 
Alison's father, Jerry, asked me if it would be okay to kiss Alison's hand. It loved that sweet idea. He told me that he had seen it in another wedding. So that is what he is about to do here then place her hand in Michael's. He told me he also had seen in another wedding where the groom kissed the bride's hand before he kissed her lips at the end of the ceremony. Like that too!
 We began with a warm welcome, a prayer, remembering the ancestors, a blessing for the parents. 
 I know Kate Pope is getting some great shots of the wedding here. 
 Although I might look like I am frowning, I am really squinting since the sun is right in my eyes. 
 Loving their story here. It was a good one with some good humor that we all enjoyed. 
 Michael was dripping so I mopped his face off. He really appreciated it.
 Their secret paragraphs about what they love about each other were revealed!
 They read their vows to each other then we had the blessing of the hands ceremony. 
 The rings sealed their vows followed by a closing blessing.
 I noticed before the pronouncement that Michael's face was wet again so I did some more mopping! 
 "Gotta be ready for the kiss that's coming up soon, you know!"
 Now you are husband and wife!
 Another kiss for the camera and many more to come! 
Michael and Alison, I hope you loved hearing your wedding ceremony as much as I loved delivering it. You were such a joy to work with and I think you are a great match and will be very happily married! I wish you all the best!
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